White Oleander

It tells of the relationship of Astrid and her mother, Ingrid: the latter, an exotic creature -- alluring like the oleander but bitterly poisonous in all her relationships, including that with her daughter. After being convicted of murder, Astrid goes through a series of foster homes. Through it all, she tries to carve an identity independent from her mother, from the still far-reaching scent of oleanders that waft from behind bars, but can the apple fall far from the tree?
This was made into a movie in 2002, which I have not seen, and will likely not -- unless, in order to capture all the subtleties and nuances of the book, is made into a 17-hour screen play. :)